Balent Times

Beer Tea Party

2012-02-05T17:49:00.000-05:00

Rya asked me if I wanted to have a tea party with beers. I said, "Hell yeah, that's my kind of tea party girlfriend!" and Trent clarifed that she meant "teddy bears" I retorted, "Oh, forget it then!"

Face Painting

2012-02-05T17:46:00.000-05:00

Oh Paolo!

2012-02-04T18:04:00.001-05:00

I was going through some old pictures and videos of Paolo through the years and found this gem. Not sure what's funnier—Paolo humping Currier or my Muttley laugh at the end.

New Skills

2012-01-27T13:05:00.001-05:00

Well, I can now add successfully administer a catheter to my resume. We took Paolo into the vet on Tuesday because I wasn’t able to manually express his bladder. The vet put a catheter in Paolo and showed me how to maintain it at home. It actually makes life a little easier for me now that the urine soaked mountain of laundry is eliminated. He was supposed to wear this lampshade around the clock so he wouldn't pull out the catheter but he ate the damn thing right off his head while I was at work. I'm not too worried about him getting to his catheter because I honestly think he's too chubby to to reach his penis. Poor thing!

Also, while we were at the vet the doctor put a clamp on Paolo’s tail and Paolo yelped which means he felt it! The vet didn’t want to get our hopes up too high but he did say that’s a very good sign and a step in the right direction. I also keep having very vivid dreams of Paolo walking. We're trying to stay as positive as possible.

This whole experience has had a profound impact on my family. It’s crazy to think that one little incident, like falling off a bed, can change a life and the lives of those around you so much. There was a song that came out over a decade ago called The Sunscreen Song and there's a verse in that song that has always stuck with me—“Don’t worry about the future; or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind; the kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.” Paolo’s injury has blindsided us but has also put things into perspective for us. The stupid shit I worried about two weeks ago seems so trivial when faced with this.

Paolo's Recovery

2012-01-23T09:36:00.003-05:00

Paolo is much happier to be at home with his pack. The life is back in his eyes and if he could wag his tail I’m sure it would be going crazy! Paolo remains paraplegic and caring for him is an exhausting and daunting task. He has no control of his bladder or bowels so his bedding needs to be changed every two hours. His positioning need to be rotated so he doesn’t get bed sores and his legs need to be exercised to prevent atrophy. It’s like caring for a newborn and to be completely honest I wonder if we made the right decision by putting him through this surgery rather than putting him down.

And then I see how happy he is snuggling on Bruco or one of the kids and I know that we made the right decision. We didn't choose the easy path as our lives have been turned completely upside down but I have to believe that Paolo will recover and live a normal life. He just has to—he’s a fighter and he has moxie. Keep the prayers and healing energy coming.

Muffins For Moms

2012-01-23T09:05:00.000-05:00

On Friday Currier's Kindergarten class had "Muffins for Moms". While we snacked on muffins, the kids got up in front of the class one by one and announced why they loved their mom. Some of the kids had some funny reasons: "I love my mom because she lets me drink coffee in the morning" or "I love my mom because she has good hair" but Currier's was simply put, "I love my mom and she loves me."

Disclaimer: Neither of us had time to shower that morning hence the bad hair and greasy face. Don't judge.

Benvenuto a Casa Paolo

2012-01-18T20:37:00.002-05:00

We picked up Paolo today at 4pm. At discharge he was still unable to move or feel his hind legs and he requires bladder expression (I only milk those I love!) but he was in good spirits. The surgeon warned that the recovery may take several weeks to months so we brought Paolo home to do his healing.

Hearing him snoring in our bedroom is music to our ears! My family is complete again. Thank you for all the positive thoughts, prayers and well wishes. Please keep them coming!

You say Virginia, I say Vagina

2012-01-17T11:58:00.000-05:00

So Currier and Rya are roughhousing and Rya screams, "Ouch, my penis!" and I correct her, "Rya, you don't have a penis. You have a vagina" and Currier adds, "Yeah Rya you have a vagina and vagina is also a state." I then correct him, "No vagina is not a state. Virginia is a state!"

Prayers for Paolo

2012-01-16T18:07:00.000-05:00

Paolo's failed attempt to jump on our bed yesterday turned into limping last night and paralyzed hind legs this morning. I rushed him to the emergency vet at 6AM this morning and jumped on an exhausting, emotional roller coaster ride. We were forced to decide between a VERY expensive surgery that doesn't guarantee Paolo will ever walk again or put Paolo down.

We took a leap of faith and a very, groggy Paolo woke from spinal surgery late this afternoon. They fixed a herniated disk and hemorrhaging of the spinal cord. He'll be staying in the hospital for a few more nights before he can be released to his long road to recovery at home. Please send prayers and healing thoughts to this extraordinary dog that we're not ready to say good bye to anytime soon!

Happy New Year!

2012-01-06T15:31:00.003-05:00

We went to Florida to celebrate the New Year and Trent's 40th Birthday with his family. His sister Kathy hosted the party at her house with an incedible Greek themed dinner followed by cake and a champagne toast.

I can't think of a better way to ring in a new year and celebrate a milestone birthday than with this crazy crowd!

Christmas 2011

2011-12-29T13:38:00.000-05:00

The kids woke us at 7AM on Christmas morning with crazy excitement, "SANTA CAME! SANTA CAME!" It was awesome seeing Currier get Wii and the games he wanted and Rya get a cool vintage kitchen set and all the accessories. Santa did good this year. Best Christmas yet!

Festival of Lights

2011-12-26T13:45:00.000-05:00

This holiday season has been crazy busy but we still managed to squeeze in the annual tradition of seeing the Holiday Festival of Lights on James Island. As we were rushing there to get in the gate before it closed, we got a lovely speeding ticket for $85. Merry Friggin Christmas!

Wishing You a Merry Christmas...

2011-12-23T23:35:00.001-05:00

Froehliche Weinachten, Buon Natale, Feliz Navidad, Kala Christouyenna and Mele Kalikimaka from our family to yours!

Gingerbread Nightmare

2011-12-23T10:01:00.001-05:00

Last Saturday night we hosted a sleepover for a small army of kids and I had the brilliant idea of keeping them busy by building gingerbread houses. It was an absolute nightmare trying to get six gingerbread houses to keep from collapsing while the icing dried. And trying to teach patience to six kids all cracked out on sugar was impossible. Everyone cried at some point in the evening including me! Merry Christmas.

Preschool Holiday Show

2011-12-23T09:41:00.000-05:00

Last week Rya's preschool class entertained us with a holiday show. They sang Dreidel, Feliz Navidad and Jingle Bells. For the first two songs she couldn't see us out in the sea of parents and siblings and she looked so sad. When she finally caught a glimpse of us her eyes lit up and my heart grew two sizes too big!

Daniel Island Flag Football

2011-12-21T10:00:00.000-05:00

Currier started his 3rd season of Flag Football with the Daniel Island YMCA. It's impressive how much he "gets it" this year. He's not just goofing around. He's pulling flags with a vengeance and scoring touchdowns like he owns the field.

Kindergarten Gingerbread

2011-12-21T09:34:00.000-05:00

Last week I volunteered at Currier's Kindergarten to help the kids make gingerbread houses. This is where I discovered that eating a Skittle and an M&M at the same time tastes just like a Tootsie Roll. It's true—all you really need to know you learn in Kindergarten.

Oh, Christmas Tree

2011-12-20T09:27:00.000-05:00

The annual "Get over there and pretend you're hanging an ornament on the Christmas tree and I'll take your picture. No, make it look realistic like you're actually hanging it not just touching it! No, touch the hook part not the actual ornament! That's not the hook part! Just touch the... oh, forget it and just smile!"

Visiting Santa

2011-12-19T12:00:00.000-05:00

We took the kids to see Santa last week. Rya asked for "housekeeping" and Santa said, "What? Ice skates? You want ice skates?" Currier asked for Wii and Santa asked, "What kind of games do you want to go with the Wii?" Currier replied, "Lego Star Wars, Indiana Jones and Pirates of the Caribbean!" Santa said, "Those are Legos to build not video games to play. What kind of Wii games do you want?" Currier had to explain to Santa that Lego has Wii games and he was quite shocked that Santa didn't know that! Way to go Santa!

Opening Doors for Prizes

2011-12-16T11:32:00.001-05:00

This is the first year that we did advent calendars. We usually just do the paper chain for our Christmas countdown but this year we decided to add to the excitement of Santa's ETA. If you ask Currier what he's been up to lately he'll say, "Opening doors for prizes!"

Friday Favorites—Dunkin Donuts Christmas Ornament 2011

2011-12-09T20:32:00.001-05:00

I've been collecting Dunkin Donuts Christmas ornaments for years and this year is by far my favorite. Be sure to run out and get one before I buy them all up! Happy Friday!

Split Lip

2011-12-04T10:07:00.000-05:00

Rya took a face plant yesterday and split her lip. Just like all wounds above the neck, it bled and bled and bled. This was one of those wounds that probably could have used a stitch or two but we opted for vitimin E and butterfly bandaids. Let's hope we made the right decision.

Letters to the Bearded Fat Man

2011-12-04T09:56:00.001-05:00

The kids drafted their wish lists for Santa and mailed them to the North Pole. Currier wants Wii, Wii games, Legos and chocolate covered cherries. Rya wants "housekeeping" (a kitchen set), Tinkerbell Barbie, books and chocolate covered cherries. Santa might have to put in some overtime to pull this off!

Black Friday Crafts

2011-12-04T09:50:00.001-05:00

The kids and I went to Michael's craft store on Black Friday and overflowed the cart with lots of Christmas crafts to keep us busy over the next couple of weeks. Every window in our house is adorned with Christmas cheer. We love love love this time of the year!

Friday Favorites—Santa's Key

2011-12-02T19:59:00.003-05:00

Currier has been losing sleep over the fact that we don't have a chimney and fireplace for Santa to enter our house on Christmas Eve. I found the solution at Wonder Works of Charleston. This is a magic key that we leave out for Santa on Christmas Eve so he may enter our home in a more dignified way. Problem solved! Happy Friday.

Thanksgiving 2011

2011-11-24T15:46:00.001-05:00

I suppose its become a tradition in our house to celebrate Thanksgiving the night before...

So that we can wake up early on Thanksgiving and run the Turkey Trot 5K downtown Charleston. This year Currier ran it with me. Aside from his whining through The Battery that he was "so thirsty" and the piggy back ride he begged for half of King Street, he did great and I'm very proud of him for accomplishing a 5K run at the age of five.

Now it's time to eat some leftovers, decorate for Christmas, take a nap, eat some more leftovers, take another nap and then eat some more. Happy Thanksgiving.

Kindergarten Class 2011

2011-11-20T10:21:00.002-05:00

Currier's Kindergarten Class 2011. Mrs. Schuck and Ms. Wanda.

Rya's Tea Party

2011-11-20T09:39:00.000-05:00

We celebrated Rya's 3rd birthday with an elegant tea party. Her guests were served hot cocoa with loads of mini marshmallows and fine edibles. While complimenting each other on fashion and jewelry, the ladies decorated foam owls with flowery and sparkly embellishments.

While finger sandwiches were highly suggested as nibble at high tea, her majesty insisted on tacos so tacos were served by Sir Currier.

We ended the high-class afternoon with cupcakes, more fashion compliments and gift opening. It was a fine afternoon that left the staff exhausted but pleased to see the birthday girl so happy!

Dear Rya D.,

2011-11-17T22:23:00.001-05:00

Three years ago, I scheduled a C-section as casually as I would a pedicure. It was really that simple. I chose November 17th so you could share your birthday with your grandfathers—Papi Balent and Papa Currier. Four days before your actual due date, I checked into the East Cooper Medical Center for a 12:30PM appointment, and 33 minutes later you were born without any pain or pushing. It was really that simple. You continue to live your life as simply as you entered this world.

For most of your life I thought you were the serious one in our wacky family, but this past year you’ve pleasantly surprised me with a very dry sense of humor. One evening, I noticed your bedroom light on past 9PM and when I stormed upstairs I found you playing with your dollhouse. I demanded, “Rya, get in bed now! It’s way past your bedtime!” You placed the tiny dollhouse bed on the floor, sat on it, and as serious as cancer said, “I can’t sleep in this bed; Rya too big!” Another funny incident that sticks out in my mind deals with the disgusting fake-plastic-rabid-rat that we display at Halloween. Throughout the holiday season, you would periodically hug the repulsive thing and call it “Mama”— that's wicked funny! Trust me, this sense of humor will carry you through the toughest times in life—I am so thankful that you have it!

You finished speech therapy this year, yet, a few months later the State of South Carolina called me saying that they wanted to test you for the “special needs” program. I’d be a liar to say that phone call didn’t bother me. One thing you can always depend on from me is honesty, Rya. I actually spent 10 minutes in the stairwell of Arcadia Publishing “pulling myself together”. You went through a series of tests and passed them all—thankfully. But, please know that if you hadn’t passed, I would have had your back. There was a Plan B. I always have a backup plan. That’s another thing you should know about me.

So back to this simple way of life—you continue to be very easy going with an occasional 3-year-old outburst. You’re easily entertained, you make me laugh unintentionally, you’re ridiculously gorgeous and, above all, you have a kind heart. A mother couldn’t ask more. You’re a dream. Don’t ever wake me up.

All my love,
Mama

Kindergarten Nursery Rhyme Show

2011-11-05T19:16:00.001-04:00

Mrs. Schuck's Kindergarten class had a nursery rhyme show yesterday. Aside from Currier's announcement that he needed a tissue because he had a booger, the entire performance was ridiculously adorable.

Currier's center stage moment was "Row, Row, Row Your Boat". Along with his buddies, Connor and Jacks, he changed the words to Row, row, row your boat gently down the stream and if you see an alligator don't forget to scream- AHHHH!

I was very proud of my little ham!

Friday Favorites—Creative Cursing

2011-11-04T11:59:00.002-04:00

My friend Rebby gave me this book for my birthday. It's a mix n' match profanity generator and it's hours of belly rolling laughter. Happy Friday Slut Donkeys!

Day of the Dead

2011-11-02T10:00:00.001-04:00

Today is il Giorno dei Morti, Day of the Dead—an Italian celebration of remembering our loved ones who have died. Since Currier is Sicilian born, we’ve adopted this tradition in our home. This morning Currier and Rya woke to presents “brought” to them from the dead. I’m sure most people think this is morbid but I think it’s a sweet way to open a conversation with my children about death and give them the opportunity to honor and cherish our loved ones who have passed on.

Buon Compleanno A Te

2011-11-02T09:36:00.000-04:00

Last night we threw Bruco a surprise party for his 8th birthday. He was genuinely surprised. I honestly think he had no idea that it was his birthday and the T-bone steak that I was cooking was actually for him! Bruco may be the world's worst dog, but he's our dog and we love him and his quirky ways!

Cinderella and General Grievous

2011-11-01T10:08:00.001-04:00

Cinderella and General Grievous hit the hood hard last night. The princess and villain hoarded as much candy as their dainty and greedy little hands could carry.

Halloween 2011 was deemed a success as they both passed out in candy comas with smiles (and some chocolate) on their faces.

The Currier and Coleen Show

2011-11-01T06:00:00.001-04:00

For the past two months Trent’s been traveling A LOT for work. Last week he had to go down to Jacksonville, Florida so he took Rya D. with him so she could spend a week with her Mimi and Papi in The Villages—I had one less child to care for and Rya got spoiled rotten—win win! Currier and I had a week to ourselves. We had sleepovers in the guest room every night, watched scary movies way past our bedtime, ate junky cereal for dinner, carved pumpkins handpicked from the pumpkin patch, played video games until our eyes and hands hurt and we giggled like fools over our shared humor. It was a great week and Currier never wanted it to end.

Currier's First Painting

2011-10-24T20:42:00.001-04:00

Yesterday Currier took his first acrylic on canvas painting class at Bottles and Brushes. He painted me a rocket ship for my birthday.

He took this very seriously! The instructor said, "I have a feeling I'm going to be seeing a lot of this kid!"

Race For The Cure

2011-10-24T20:36:00.004-04:00

Ella flew in from Wisconsin for the Race for the Cure. It was a beautiful day for a run!

That evening the ESAC girls met at 17 North for dinner and drinks to celebrate Ella being in town. It was a short and sweet visit and I felt honored to be a part of her trip back to Charleston!

I Wanna Be The Girl With The Most Cake

2011-10-24T20:30:00.001-04:00

I had to pick up Rya from school early last week because she wasn't feeling good. This made her feel better.

Lunch With My Favorite Kindergartner

2011-10-24T20:28:00.000-04:00

I had lunch at Currier's school. I smuggled in Subway and we sat at the cool kids' table!

Friday Favorites- Paolo Snoring

2011-10-07T07:34:00.000-04:00

Paolo has a deviated septum from being hit by a truck. He's had several unsuccessful surgeries to try to correct it. This is what we live with as a result.

Collecting BOX TOP$ for Kindergarten

2011-10-06T10:48:00.000-04:00

Currier is collecting BOX TOP$ for his Kindergarten class this year. If you happen to see one on your cereal or snack box please cut them out and send them to Currier. Each one is worth a dime so they can add up quickly. Thanks in advance for participating!

Feeling Itchy

2011-10-05T19:08:00.000-04:00

When I picked up Currier from school today he had this sticker on him. It reads: "Children in your child's class have head lice. Please go to http://laurelhill.ccsdschools.com/ and click on the clinic folder on the left for more information." I haven't stopped itching since.

My Wacky Kids

2011-09-25T20:18:00.002-04:00

Our days at the pool are limited now that the summer is quickly coming to an end. The air is turning cooler and Halloween decorations are out. Summer went by too quickly.

I love these precious moments.

Valdez Alaska

2011-09-25T18:23:00.008-04:00

I had the privilege of attending a conference in Alaska this past week. It was the Alaska Museums/Alaska Historical Society Joint Annual Conference in Valdez. My Publisher, Donna, and I arrived in Valdez late Tuesday night after 17 hours of traveling. We woke early Wednesday morning a bit jet lagged and disoriented (truthfully hungover!) and ventured around this foggy harbor town.

That evening we embarked on the Opening Reception Glacier Cruise with other history enthusiasts (total geeks!). The delicious catered food, open bar and views of several waterfalls thoroughly impressed us. The fact that we didn't actually see a glacier on the glacier cruise unimpressed us.

On Thursday and Friday we attended the conference at the Valdez Convention and Civic Center where we accomplished our goal of making contacts with potential authors for our local history books.

On Friday we had a little down time before heading to the airport so we took a drive to the Worthington Glacier because we refused to leave Alaska without seeing a glacier (giant ice cube!). We also drove by countless waterfalls along the way but much to our disappointment we had no run-ins with any wildlife such as bear, moose, baby seals, penguins or huskies.

We also got a great view of more glaciers from the airplane. I'm not sure what was more frightening—the rickety prop airplane ride to Anchorage or the fact that we didn't go through security to board this flight but the incredible views of the snow capped mountains and glaciers outweighed the fear (the cocktail named Northern Lights didn't hurt either!).

We had a four hour layover in Anchorage so we ventured away from the airport to a bar called Humpy's where I met an old Newburyport High School friend for a couple of drinks. Steve and I graduated together over 20 years ago and we haven't seen each other since. He's a pilot up in Anchorage now and if it wasn't for facebook our drinks, shared laughs and sarcasm would have never occurred some 4000 miles away from our home town all these years after high school. I love how facebook makes the world smaller (YEAT!).

After our quick Anchorage outing, we headed back to mainland America feeling lucky for our Alaska experience where the air is cold and fresh, the salmon is something I will talk about for the rest of my life, and the nature is for lack of a better word "breathtaking". We arrived back in Charleston yesterday afternoon feeling thankful for the sunshine, modern conveniences of the mainland and for the lack of camouflage, flannel and facial hair.

Brand New Red Sox Fan

2011-09-19T12:09:00.001-04:00

Our good friends, Erin and Art, had a beautiful baby boy on September 6th and we finally got to meet Owen over the weekend. He is beautiful and wicked awesome and sure to be a Red Sox fan.

Girl Time

2011-09-19T12:04:00.001-04:00

Rya and I had some "girl time" on Saturday. We got pedicures (Rya loves being pampered almost as much as I do!), had a nice lunch and went shopping. I can't express how thrilled I am to have a daughter to share these moments with!

Bridge Ride 2011

2011-09-19T12:01:00.002-04:00

I conquered my second spin marathon over the weekend. It was a cold, wet and windy morning at the Waterfront Park making it a less enjoyable experience than last year's ride. However, this year they had a live band, more participants and more money was raised for the East Cooper Community Outreach so it was worth it.

And I got to ride with these lovely ladies!

Eat Tacos and Cuddle

2011-09-12T17:15:00.000-04:00

On Friday, poor Rya was up all night with a stomach bug. On Saturday morning I told her we could do whatever she wanted to make her feel better. "Anything, you name it?" she responded, "Eat tacos and cuddle." On our way to Moe's Southwest Grill, we took a quick detour to the aquarium to see the new stingray exhibit and meet Dora the Explorer—which she loved! For lunch her wish was granted and we followed up the tacos with some serious cuddling. Perfect Saturday!

End Of Summer Bash

2011-09-08T15:07:00.001-04:00

We had a potluck party at our house over Labor Day Weekend. We set up the jumpy/castle waterslide, the blow-up pool and the tent to entertain the kids. Our neighbors brought corn hole (I giggled when I typed that) and jello shots to entertain the adults. Good times!

I'm sad to see the summer come to an end.

Donuts for Dads

2011-09-04T07:23:00.018-04:00

On Friday September 2nd, Currier's kindergarten class hosted Donuts for Dads. Currier got to show Trent around his classroom, escort him to the book fair in the school library and eat donuts with his dad at school.

Currier also presented Trent with an adorable write up titled "My Daddy", a drawing of Currier and Trent and a hand-made tie. It was a successful father and son morning!

This Child Will Be The Death Of Me

2011-09-03T18:27:00.001-04:00

As soon as I clean Rya's room, she runs up there and puts things back the way she likes them... MESSY!

First Week Success!

2011-08-27T17:24:00.000-04:00

Currier's doing awesome in Kindergarten. His teacher sent him home with this award after the first week of school. It's no small feat to earn an award for rocking someones world at the age of five. I'm a proud Mama!

Kindergarten

2011-08-20T17:18:00.000-04:00

Currier started Kindergarten this week. For his first day, I drove him in and walked him to his classroom to meet his teachers, Mrs. Schuck and Ms.Wanda.

For his second day, he rode the bus all by himself like a big boy!

We're Gonna Party Like It's 1991

2011-08-20T17:15:00.011-04:00

I went home to Newburyport for my 20th high school reunion. We kicked off the 10 day trip with a keg party potluck at my cousin Cheryl's house in Amesbury. It was a fun day filled with family, friends, delicious food, keg beer, wicked laughs, ridiculous sarcasm, keg stands and lots of silly behavior.

After nursing our hangovers the following day, we took the kid's to Yankee Homecoming Old Fashion Sunday in Newburyport where we watched the muster and played in the water. We ended the day at Salisbury Beach eating Cristy's pizza and soft serve ice cream with jimmies.

On Monday my dad took us to Storyland in Glen, New Hampshire. It was a total blast and it's just as magical as I remember it as a child. The kids absolutely loved it and honestly so did the adults. My brother and I went there in 1977 and it was so fun to come home and compare the then and now pictures.

On Tuesday Currier had a bit of a stomach bug so we relaxed around the house and I rested up for the Yankee Homecoming Road Race. I ran it with my brother's girlfriend Eliza and her sister Leanna. It was perfect weather for a race and although I found the hill of Oakland Street a total bitch I still enjoyed the run. After the race we went to the Park Lunch for burgers and beers. A perfect way to end the day.

On Wednesday we went to Fenway to watch the Boston Red Sox vs. the Cleveland Indians. A few months ago I put a message out on facebook asking if anyone would like to join us as I was able to get tickets through a friend. 85 people ended up responding and so 85 friends from Newburyport met at Fenway and watched the Red Sox win. It was an incredibly fun night and I loved the wicked energy from all the Newburyporters "YEAT".

On Thursday we went to Seabrook Beach with my dad and several friends joined us. It was a little chilly especially for this now Southern girl but we ended up staying for hours and having a lovely little beach day.

On Friday we had breakfast at Mad Martha's on Plum Island and then we took the kids to the spot where Trent and I were married 14 years earlier.

After the beach we visited my mother's grave. It was bitter sweet seeing Rya Diane stand on the resting spot of the woman for whom she is named. My mother's been dead nearly 30 years now and it never gets easier visiting her grave.

Friday was the Newburyport High School Class of 1991 20th reunion. It was a TOTAL BLAST to see some people I haven't seen in 20 years. It was a really great night and well worth the trip.

On Saturday my brother PJ took Trent and Currier fishing so the girls (Me, Rya, Cheryl and Eliza) went downtown Newburyport to do a little shopping and get psychic readings (she told me something that gave me the chills). While downtown we ate dinner at the Grog where I worked for eight years as a teenager. After dinner we met up with the boys and party hopped between Tracey and Loren's house watching the Yankee Homecoming Fireworks.

On Sunday we watched the Yankee Homecoming Parade with my dad. The kids loved it and Currier said it was better than Halloween with all the candy they got from the passing floats.

After the parade we met Rebecca and bunch of friends at a Mexican restaurant to celebrate her birthday. What was intended to be a mellow last night dinner turned into a drunken tequila soaked roller coaster ride and my cheeks still hurt from laughing so hard!

On Monday we bid farewell to my family, my friends and Newburyport and we hoped on a plane (very hungover and 8 pounds heavier) and headed back to Charleston where we are still trying to recover from this vacation.

And here's the rest of the pictures!

Friday Favorites—Plum Island Soap Company

2011-08-19T14:54:00.002-04:00

I love Plum Island Soap Company products, especially the Healing Salts for sore muscles. All of the products are made with pure ingredients and are manufactured on Plum Island, Massachusetts—my favorite place on earth.

Amici Siciliano

2011-07-24T12:56:00.020-04:00

Our good friends, Phil and Aja, from Sicily were in town senza bambini (without kids) and popped by for dinner with us. It was so great to see them and reminisce about our time in Sicily. Aja and I had babies around the same time and we would meet several days a week at the gym to workout and then have lunch at the Applebees on base with Currier and Ella. I have fond memories of those early days of motherhood in Sicily. Manco la Sicilia.

Baby Shower for Erin's Little Slugger

2011-07-24T12:55:00.000-04:00

The girls at Arcadia threw Erin a baby shower. We went with a Red Sox theme because this child is sure to be a "wicked pissah"! Congratulations Art and Erin. We can't wait to meet your son.

Summer Vacation

2011-07-24T12:53:00.001-04:00

The kids spent a week in Florida visiting with their Mimi and Papi and all their aunts, uncles and cousins. While they were away one would imagine Trent and I living it up but honestly we just reveled in the peace and quiet and caught up on some sleeping and TV watching.

Aunt Carrie and Aunt Beth drove the kids back up to South Carolina with a car load of cousins. Clayton, Nyah and Kellie came and spent a weekend with us and Currier and Rya loved every second of it!

A Week Without Kids

2011-07-13T19:10:00.000-04:00

Trent jokingly said to his sister, "You should take the kids to Florida with you for a week to see Mom and Dad!" and Carrie the good soul actually did it on a moment's notice! While half of me is jumping for joy at this sweet taste of freedom, the other half is pathetically heartsick.

Fun with Aunt Carrie

2011-07-13T19:01:00.000-04:00

Aunt Carrie came for a quick 2 night visit on her way down to Florida. We squeezed in as much fun as possible including but not limited to mini golf and go-cart rides at Blackbeard's Cove. Good times as always with Aunt Carrie.

Ella's Farewell 5K

2011-07-10T19:32:00.007-04:00

I ran the Daniel Island Twilight 5K as a send off for my good friend, Ella. It turned out to be about 95 degrees that evening with 100% humidity making it the most miserable race I've ever run. I threw up in my mouth at the finish line and as soon as I stopped running I got a horrifying migraine. I honestly think I may of had a mild heat stroke and I'd do it all again for Ella.

Annual 4th of July Cul-de-sac Party

2011-07-05T19:55:00.001-04:00

Last night was our annual cul-de-sac potluck party to celebrate the 4th of July. It was an evening full of delicious food, good company, lots of laughs, cold beer and fun games such as three-legged races, egg toss and sac races.

We ended the evening with a firework extravaganza in the street and more laughs. As always it was a BLAST!

Sunflowers

2011-07-02T18:32:00.000-04:00

The kids planted sunflower seeds outside of our garage and they have bloomed into beautiful bursts of sunshine. I can't help but smile everytime I pull into our driveway.

Friday Favorites- Girl Time

2011-07-01T22:00:00.002-04:00

Today I picked Rya up from school early for manis and pedis in the living room. I love having a little girly girl! Happy Friday!

Father's Day 2011

2011-06-20T10:06:00.000-04:00

For Father's Day we woke Trent with breakfast in bed. After crowding around him while he ate, we let him sleep in till 10am and then I woke him to mow the lawn (Happy Father's Day indeed!).

After our household chores, we packed a picnic and spent a good part of the afternoon basking in the HOT sun poolside. We followed the pool with a long nap and a family movie night. It was a good day. Happy Father's Day Trent. You are the BEST father I know.

Molten Lava

2011-06-20T10:02:00.000-04:00

Uncle P.J. and Eliza gave Currier this cool paper mache volcano kit for his birthday. We erupted the bad boy over the weekend and it was a huge hit! Currier loves little projects like this.

Big Boobies

2011-06-18T06:45:00.001-04:00

Rya came downstairs this morning and said, "Look at my big boobies!" She's just like her mom minus the big boobies.

Stanley Cup Champions 2011

2011-06-16T12:17:00.000-04:00

Currier only watched the 1st period last night before we put him to bed. The first thing out of his mouth this morning was, "Did my Bruins win the Stanley Cup?"

We love that dirty water!

Kindergarten Enrichment Program

2011-06-16T12:13:00.000-04:00

Currier was accepted into the Kindergarten Enrichment Program and by "accepted" I mean I wrote a check to the school and begged them to take him. It's just a little camp that gets the preschoolers ready for their first day of kindergarten which is right around the corner—August 16th.

After completing his first day, I treated him to a Happy Meal at McDonald's and we finally tried the glorious Rolo McFlurry. We deserved it.

Friday Favorites—Botox

2011-06-03T16:02:00.001-04:00

This is pretty personal so of course I want to shout it from the mountain tops— BOTOX® changed my life! Several months ago I was at the dermatologist being treated for some skin irritations (even more personal which I’ll tell you about later!) when I happened to mention that I was a “wicked” sweaty person. I explained that I sweat so profusely from my armpits (especially my right) that I’ve been known to tape paper towels under my arms in order to wear certain clothes. My dermatologist diagnosed me as having hyperhidrosis (excessive sweatiness!) and submitted a form to my insurance company requesting full coverage of BOTOX® to stop the sweating. Similar to the way it removes wrinkles (and causes that surprised look!) BOTOX® paralyzes nerve endings and inactivates sweat glands. Who knew? My insurance company accepted the claim and I’m sweat free for free and it has been life changing!

911- From Preschool to Prison

2011-05-31T21:01:00.001-04:00

Yesterday Currier was over the neighbors house playing with their 6-year-old twins and the three of them thought it would be a good idea to call 911. Not once but 20 TIMES! Currier is punished for two weeks. No games, toys, TV, bike rides or dessert. We also made him write this letter to the Mount Pleasant Police Department apologizing for wasting their valuable resources. He will hand deliver this tomorrow. The child is barely out of preschool and already a felon!

Craig's 40th Birthday Bash

2011-05-31T20:56:00.000-04:00

For Craig's 40th Birthday, his wife Lauren rented this monstrous house on the Isle of Palms for Memorial Day Weekend and they invited all their friends to come spend the weekend.

It was an action packed weekend full of delicious food, great company, lots of booze, a couple fights and many laughs. Happy 40th Craig. Thanks for the memories.

Preschool Graduation

2011-05-31T20:39:00.001-04:00

On Friday Currier graduated from the Starfish Academy preschool. He's all registered for kindergarten and starts this new chapter on August 16th.

Way to go, Currier!

Bottles and Brushes Part VI

2011-05-26T22:47:00.001-04:00

Tonight all the girls from East Shore Athletic Club got together to celebrate our good friend, Ella Gamba. Ella is leaving us in a few weeks to move to Wisconsin. Ella is one the most talented, gorgeous, funniest and kindest friends I've ever had. I'll miss her dearly. I'll especially miss our runs (thanks for always pushing me, Ella) and her wit.

We all brought an appetizer and loads of booze to share while we painted Four Trees with Reflection.

It was one of the best classes I've been to at Bottles and Brushes. I'm going to miss my sweet Russian friend, Ella. Best of luck on your new adventure. Da sveedaneeya.

May The Force Be With You

2011-05-23T19:05:00.003-04:00

For Currier's birthday, he requested a Star Wars theme. My co-worker, Laura, made these adorable invitations. Talented she is.

To save money, I made all the food, cupcakes and gift bags myself. Tired I am.

We blew up the jumpy castle/waterslide and gave all the kids noodles to use as lightsabers. I was worried that this might be the worst idea I've ever had but it turned out to be one of the best! Awesome I am.

Part of the Jedi training was to nail Darth Vader (AKA the birthday boy) with water balloons. This was a HUGE hit with the kids. Funny it was.

Over 30 kids came to celebrate Currier's special day. Lucky he is.

The Darth Vader pinata caused a stampede. Crazy it was.

Currier got a ridiculous amount of gifts. Thankful he is.

Dear Five-Year-Old Currier,

2011-05-19T09:52:00.000-04:00

Wasn’t it just yesterday that you were pulled into the world screaming, slippery, and wriggling while I laid there exhausted, terrified, and paralyzed. I’ve replayed your birth in my head so many times. After 48 hours of labor, I was delirious when they finally cut you out of me. They held you to my face, I yelped, “I love you” and then I collapsed into a deep sleep. I was dreaming of the beach when the nurse woke me to feed you by placing your warm tiny body on my chest.  I come back to that memory often, your eyes staring at me, the two of us meeting for the first time. I remember feeling like I’ve known you forever.

I love the age you’re at now. You’re becoming more self-sufficient every day which makes life much easier for me. You dress yourself, get your own drinks and snacks, wipe your own ass (not very well as your underwear proves), buckle your seat belt and shower all on your own.  At the rate you’re learning things, I figure we can get you out of the house and on your own by the time you turn six.

Last week you had several seizures in the car on the way to school and then you lost consciousness. This was the first time anything like that has ever happened and of course it had to happen while your father was away for work. It happened very quickly but the thoughts that raced through my brain lasted forever and those thoughts knocked the wind out of me. I’m still trying to catch my breath. Don’t ever do that to me again!

You have changed so much since that morning five years ago when you spiraled into my life.  I have changed too.  You are growing into a fine young man and I'm a better person because of you. My mind will forever be occupied with your well being. I want you to be safe and healthy. I want you to be happy, content and kind. I want you to always feel my love. Happy 5th Birthday Little Buddy! You mean the world to me.
All my love,
Mama

Strawberry Shortcake for Breakfast. Yes Please.

2011-05-15T09:37:00.004-04:00

We picked so many strawberries yesterday that we'll be eating strawberry shortcake for breakfast, lunch and dinner all week.

And whipped cream mustaches and goatees are always fun first thing in the morning.

Dinner Swim

2011-05-15T09:37:00.000-04:00

Last night we packed up our dinner and ate poolside. It was our first swim in our pool of many this season.

Both kids are doing so good in the water. I'm not anywhere close to the point of being able to sit and read a magazine while the kids swim but at least I'm not having as many mini heart attacks while they're in the water.

Currier's FunDay

2011-05-14T18:04:00.002-04:00

Given the week Currier had, I told him he could plan our whole Saturday—what ever he wanted to do! We started with breakfast at Dunkin Donuts and scratch tickets at the gas station (won $20) and then headed to the Charleston Animal Society to play with the homeless dogs for a few hours.

On our way home we stopped at the Boone Hall Plantation to pick strawberries followed by cartoons and a nap. Now we're packing a picnic to eat at the pool and then we're going to end this fantastic day with fresh strawberry shortcake. This kid knows how to plan a FunDay!

A Parent's Nightmare

2011-05-13T17:34:00.001-04:00

Yesterday morning on the way to school, Currier asked me to turn around and go home because he needed to go to the bathroom. I asked how bad he had to go and when he didn’t answer I glanced in the rear view mirror and saw my worst nightmare—Currier’s head was tilted back, his eyes were rolled back into his head and he was convulsing. Seconds later he was slumped over unconscious and snoring. I slammed on brakes pulled over in the grass on Highway 17 and began shaking Currier, “WAKE UP! WAKE UP!” He woke, projectile vomited, lost control of his bowels and then the whole nightmare repeated itself.

Later in the ER I learned that he had Febrile seizures which is caused by a sudden spike in his temperature. It’s still a mystery what caused the fever since he tested negative for the most obvious illnesses. He’s fine now but I don’t think I’ll ever be the same.

Stories by Currier

2011-05-11T21:45:00.000-04:00

"Once upon a time there was a poopy diaper and a Shirley Temple with extra cherries tap dancing in the living room when all of a sudden a shark jumped through the window and ate the poopy diaper and drank the Shirley Temple. The End."

"A fart and a turtle are playing on the beach and the fart gets a sunburn and has to go in the water to cool off and a shark eats the fart. The End"

"Once upon a time there was an old mother named Coleen and she was sitting on the beach and heard a strange noise and thought "What the heck?" and she farted jelly beans. The End."

Mother's Day 2011

2011-05-08T22:21:00.001-04:00

For Mother's Day, I got breakfast in bed, fresh tulips, handmade cards, popcorn (WTF?), a picnic lunch on the beach, a sun burn, lots of sandy kisses, a 2 hour nap with my dogs, a taco dinner, a ride for an ice cream, more hugs and kisses and a bedtime without any fussing. It was a damn good day! I am lucky indeed.

Belly Hurtin'

2011-05-08T22:14:00.000-04:00

Rya had a rough week last week. For several days Rya had been complaining that her belly hurt. I kept giving her ginger ale and brushing it off. It turned out to be a bladder infection. I finally figured it out and got her on antibiotics which caused a bad reaction- a rash and projectile vomiting to boot. Since she couldn't keep Tylenol down, her temperature soared to 103. After several trips to the doctor's office, fever reducing suppositories (never knew these existed but thank goodness they do!) and a change of antibiotics, we finally got little Miss Rya D. feeling like herself again.

Chaos Cubed

2011-05-08T21:58:00.001-04:00

Last weekend Stacey took us out on her boat, which they appropriately named Chaos Cubed.

She took us the long way to Capers Island so we could have more cruise time. The kids absolutely loved it.

Once we got to Capers, we ate a picnic lunch, drank beer and poked at dead jelly fish in the sand. Before heading back home, Stacey blew up the tube for the kids to ride. It was a perfect boating day and we feel fortunate that we were invited along.

Wiffle

2011-04-30T12:35:00.000-04:00

Today Currier got his first ever wiffle haircut.

Friday Favorites—Random Acts of Kindness

2011-04-29T20:14:00.001-04:00

At Thanksgiving time this anonymous card was sent to us with a $100 bill in it. There was no return address and the card was signed "a friend". This incredibly generous and totally random act of kindness took my breath away and still baffles me. I have no idea who sent it, but I keep this card on my desk to remind me of the good in the world. Whoever you are—thank you.

Easter 2011

2011-04-24T11:29:00.001-04:00

Although the Easter Bunny had a raging sinus infection that landed her in the hospital early Easter morning, she still managed to fill Easter baskets for the kids and dogs with lots of goodies!

Seeing my kids this happy makes me feel better. That and antibiotics! Happy Easter.

Bottles and Brushes Part V

2011-04-24T11:28:00.002-04:00

Last night I went to Bottles and Brushes to paint my rendition of Rainbow Row.

It was a lovely evening spent with lovely people. I can't wait for the next class.

My Darlings

2011-04-22T14:33:00.000-04:00

Currier and Rya's first day of school.

Charleston Riverdogs

2011-04-22T14:32:00.000-04:00

Our neighbor gave us free tickets to the Riverdogs game for Family Sunday. It was Kid's Opening Day so Currier and Rya got free t-shirts, hotdogs, chips and a drink.

And we got to see the comedic classic and Riverdogs owner Bill Murray. It was a good day!

Giddy Up

2011-04-22T14:21:00.000-04:00

Currier had three birthday parties to attend over the weekend. One of them was a cowboy theme with horseback riding for all the kids. Of course now he's expecting the same high standards for his 5th birthday party next month. Ugh.

Food Fight

2011-04-22T11:29:00.001-04:00

Note to self: DO NOT leave these two "darlings" unattended while eating dinner.

Double Trouble

2011-04-16T17:20:00.029-04:00

Little Miss Rya D. is having her BFF Riley over for a sleep over tonight. I anticipate a lot of giggling and pure silliness.

Friday Favorites- Sushi With Friends

2011-04-15T11:00:00.021-04:00

Now that I'm a full-time working girl I don't get to see my workout buddies as much anymore. I've resorted to waking up at 5AM to workout with the rest of the half asleep working moms of Mount Pleasant. The gym isn't nearly as fun without these ladies sweating by my side. Jean and Ella met me after work for sushi, cocktails and serious chit chat last night and it was so good to play catch up. Giggling over sushi and drinks with these two ladies is certainly one of my favorites. And I highly recommend the crunchy roll at Fugi. It will make you want to go off and be by yourself for a little while. Happy Friday!

Myrtle Beach Weekend Getaway

2011-04-10T18:10:00.002-04:00

We escaped for a quick weekend getaway to Myrtle Beach right after work on Friday. About an hour into the drive, we stopped at Litchfield Beach Fish House for dinner and couldn't have scored a better place to eat. The owner, Bob, excitingly showed the kids around his restaurant filled with sharks, prized fish and gators. He gave the kids toys to play with during dinner (which was delicious) and then gave them t-shirts to take home. Currier hasn't stopped talking about Bob and his awesome restaurant!

We stayed at the Breakers Resort which was a HUGE hit with the kids. It had a pirate ship pool, a heated lazy river, several Jacuzzis, and a heated pool.

We spent the majority of the weekend being carried away.

And relaxing in the hot tub.

The only time we left the resort was for lunch at Joe's Crab Shack at Barefoot Landing where we sucked down some beers and ate a whole lot of crab. It was a lovey and much needed mini family vacation.

Surprise Weekend with Dad

2011-04-10T18:01:00.010-04:00

My dad has been fighting multiple myeloma (blood cancer) for two years now and was just diagnosed with Idiopathic thrombocytopenic purpura or ITP which is much easier to pronounce, a bleeding disorder in which his immune system destroys platelets that are necessary for normal blood clotting. The doctors are confident that they can control this with medication and my dad assured me that he's fine and in good spirits; Alas, I still felt compelled to go home and be with him. With the help of Trent's sister getting me a plane ticket home (Thanks Tracy!) and my cousin picking me up from the airport, white-knuckleing the steering wheel in a snow storm and putting me up/putting up with me for the weekend (Thanks Cheryl!), I surprised my dad on April Fools Day! Our first stop was of course the Park Lunch where we enjoyed some chowdaahh and exchanged jokes and laughs.

My dad took me by the Commonwealth Newburyport Cancer Center where it was a pleasure to finally meet all the wonderful nurses who have been putting up with my father's bullshit and sexual harassment for the past two years.

After an evening of take-out Chinese and the Red Sox game at Dad's house, my brother PJ and I hit the Winner's Circle for some beers.

And we shared some laughs with Cheryl and Eliza until we got kicked out of the Winner's Circle for being losers.

Of course it wouldn't be a proper visit with my dad without a couple rounds of Scrabble coupled with Christy's Beach Pizza, Moxie and verbal abuse.

I rounded up the girls on my last evening home and hit downtown Newburyport for drinks, giggles, catching up and more drinks! It was a good visit home and I'm thankful for the time spent with my dad, my brother and my friends.

Top O' The Morning To Ya

2011-03-19T17:04:00.000-04:00

The silly leprechaun charmed us with his presence on St. Patrick's Day and left Lucky Charms and mini pots of gold coin chocolates for Currier and Rya. Of course he didn't leave without pulling some shenanigans. He peed in our toilet and forgot to flush, knocked over a stack of blocks, left a messy trail of clovers and escaped our trap leaving behind his tiny top hat as a tease.

Alte Freunde von Deutschland

2011-03-15T17:21:00.000-04:00

Our friends from Germany stopped by for a quick visit over the weekend. Vicky and Bob lived downstairs from us in Bahn, Germany and at the time had a toddler and infant. Now they have four boys ages ranging from 6 months to 10 years. They're stationed in Columbia, SC now and while Bob is in Iraq, Vicky and the boys were in Charleston for the weekend and made the time to come see us. It was so great to see a friend from our days in Deutschland and meet her army of boys! It was a little bitter sweet because it was Bob and Vicky that gave us Remi and Remi is a sore subject for me. She's been missing in Sicily for over five years now and my heart isn't even close to healing.

My Sweet Remi Girl.

Stacey's 40th

2011-03-14T22:03:00.003-04:00

We celebrated Stacey's 40th birthday last weekend. Her husband rented a pimped out party bus with disco lights and a stripper poll to chauffer us to a waterfront restaurant. Stacey's mom, sister and aunt from Newburyport flew down and her friends from various parts of the country flew in to surprise her making it a total of 20 people in the limo. She had no idea and seeing her shocked face walk on to the bus was priceless. It was a WILD time and I'm so happy I could be a part of it even if it took me three days to recover from it. Happy 40th Stacey, you crazy girl!

Arcadia Publishing

2011-03-14T15:33:00.006-04:00

I started my new job at Arcadia Publishing a few weeks ago. I'm an Acquisitions Editor which means I acquire titles for the publisher. Arcadia publishes photo history books and my territory is Alaska, California, Idaho and Wyoming. I'm sure you've seen Arcadia's popular Images of America series, which chronicles the history of communities with vintage photographs. The books are great and I'm so proud to be a part of making them. I really love the job and although I miss my kids, it is so refreshing to talk to adults all day and be a part of making history.